Staged and insulting. Also, I remember growing up in an area of the country where the older people from the “old country” spoke any number of languages other than English as their native tongue. How beautiful was that and how it adds to our rich tapestry here. Some of those people also knew English and some didn’t… it varies greatly with what ease anyone can actually learn a second language (a 3rd, 4th and 5th come much easier). That diversity of sound and everything that went along with it IS one of the things that I love about this country.